Sitting here in my living room in Catania Sicily, I can’t help but wonder how life can change so drastically in so short a time. My husband has collapsed from exhaustion rather early this evening, and I’m sitting here waiting until my parents get off work so I can skype with them tonight. As I was sitting here, I glanced over at my husband’s computer, which he left open on some photos he was working on. Naturally, I started skimming through all the photos that we have on this computer. I guess I was in a sentimental mood, because I went to see if we saved any photos from our wedding on here, but we didn’t. They are all on a hardrive in Maryland with our other pre-Italy photos. Then, I had a thought. I wondered if we’d remembered to delete our home videos too or if they were still taking up storage space on this computer. I was in luck. All of our videos are still stored here. I started looking through ones that we took starting with soon after we were married,